Being comfortable with yourself and happy in your life can and will bring around some major haters! A hater is someone who would happily delight in your misfortune. A hater is a person who would actually enjoy seeing you fail. I have carefully weighed the options and I want to share with you the most effective way to shake off any and all haters. Do absolutely nothing. If someone is attempting to rob you of your bombshellism in any way, shape or form, do not give them one speck of your time or energy. Life is short. You only have so long to offer your talents to the world and the people who want and deserve them. I know it can be very difficult to ignore people who want to hurt you but you must. Why? Haters require your attention in order to survive. They can not take your attention. You must give it to them. Don’t give it to them. Yes, I know it is very difficult but not impossible and it gets so much easier with practice. I can’t help but wonder what a haters true motivation is. Perhaps they are envious of you, your talents, your accomplishments or all of the above. Let’s rise above it all and view haters through compassionate eyes. Perhaps they really admire you and your confidence but never learned how to express or use feelings of admiration in a positive way. Whatever is behind their questionable behavior, know that they are truly miserable inside. You will begin to feel too sorry for them to contribute to their already painful existence.
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