Beauty and The Bombshell

Tiger Woods and Chris Brown

 

Concerning Tiger Woods and, since I am at it, Chris Brown . . .  while I don’t in any way condone their recent actions, I can’t help but wonder  how many of the people who sat on the committees that made the decisions which resulted in their losing their sponsorships are presently involved in extra marital affairs or beating their significant others.   

 

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TOO Much!

My entire life I've been told that I am Too Much!  Too Wild!  Too Loud!  Too Outrageous!  Too Bold!  Too Sensitive!  Too Emotional!  Too Needy!  I think Too Much!  I Feel Too Much!  I wear Too Much eye shadow!  I am always . . . TOO Much!

My Mother used to always tease me, "You are larger than life!"

I never really understood what she really meant by that so one day I asked.

"It means that you are going to be just fine because larger is the size of life!"

There are times when I am tempted to smile a bit less, laugh a little softer and "tone down" for the benefit of "others".

I am me and that is all I desire to be.

I can no longer edit, limit or conform my actions to the wishes of others so that "they" can be more "comfortable".

Will they smile more, laugh harder and "lighten up" for my benefit? 

I don't think that I am too much . . .

perhaps it is the others that are not enough!

Let's all risk smiling too much, laughing too much, loving too much and being too much. 

 Have you ever been told that you are too much? 

Let's start our own sociey.  We will wear clothes that are too much, have parties that are too much and enjoy life way too much!

Shake The Haters Off

Being comfortable with yourself and happy in your life can and will bring around some major haters!  A hater is someone who would happily delight in your misfortune.  A hater is a person who would actually enjoy seeing you fail.

I have carefully weighed the options and I want to share with you the most effective way to shake off any and all haters.

Do absolutely nothing.

 

If someone is attempting to rob you of your bombshellism in any way, shape or form, do not give them one speck of your time or energy.  Life is short.  You only have so long to offer your talents to the world and the people who want and deserve them.  I know it can be very difficult to ignore people who want to hurt you but you must.  Why?

 

Haters require your attention in order to survive.  They can not take your attention.  You must give it to them.  Don’t give it to them.

 

Yes, I know it is very difficult but not impossible and it gets so much easier with practice.

 

I can’t help but wonder what a haters true motivation is.  Perhaps they are envious of you, your talents, your accomplishments or all of the above.  Let’s rise above it all and view haters through compassionate eyes.  Perhaps they really admire you and your confidence but never learned how to express or use feelings of admiration in a positive way.  Whatever is behind their questionable behavior, know that they are truly miserable inside.  You will begin to feel too sorry for them to contribute to their already painful existence.